listening to louise reminds me of what was happening, marcy kaptur, rosa delauro, we were working on the appropriations committee and that was the next step. and we ended up having some bipartisan support for that and that was good and there were other issues that related to testing the income of the abuser for women who needed legal assistance and when they go for legal assistance and would say, you don't qualify because your household income is including the income of the abuser. there were many hurdles and the example of when louise talks about individuals, we learn so much from those. and frankly, for some of us, it was an education that was required because none of us had that experience in our own families, neighborhoods, churches and the rest. maybe it was there, probable it was, but we just didn't know it. but who would do that, hit somebody, but they did. and this bill has to pass. so thank you all very much. >> can i say one more thing, because i want to thank you for this. as far as i'm concerned we have the health care bill because of leader pelosi and up until the time t